I have loss a loved one through death and only recently, experience the breakdown of a relationship. Time as we are always told, is a great healer. Speaking from personal experiences, I can guarantee that one must have faith that the initial pain, the heartache of missing and thinking of the loss love, the endless lonely night of crying and wondering what is the other person doing and the living of going through the daily routine. The emptiness one feel recalling the memories of Two uniting as One. The weakness of one soul when living is so hard that all we want to do is just sleep it through.
We all have to know that one day, the tears will stop, the pain will hurt less and life does have to move on.
For my first loss, there was no time for me to wallow in my misery as my baby was just 2 weeks old. It took much positive effort and determination to stop thinking about something that I can no longer do anything about and to turn my thoughts to the future being a single parent. With a determined effort, I tried to make people around me happy and, in turn, the pain did become a little easier to bear.
How much time do I need to heal this time? Another 6 years?
